Saturday, 25 May 2019

Birmingham Girls

THE EARLY YEARS

Birmingham Girls
In November 1992, my mother rang and asked me if I would trace the family history, and I agreed. At that time, I only had a very vague idea how to set about tracing our ancestors. I thought that you paid a visit to St. Catherine’s House in London; looked through some files and that would be that. How wrong I was proved to be.
Mom had mentioned that one of my cousins had the necessary documents that I would need to get me started. I wrote to her asking for copies of anything she might have that she thought would help me. Not hearing anything in the following weeks, I forgot all about it until April 1993 when my mother rang and asked me what progress I was making. I felt ashamed and promptly rang my cousin, who lives in Kings Heath, Birmingham, and asked her if she would help me. On ascertaining that all the old documents were in her loft, I told her that I would telephone again in a few days to see how she was getting on. Realising that I needed to know how to do the research, I bought a booklet on the subject. This proved to be a mine of information and I discovered that various libraries now hold the St. Catherine’s House records on microfiche.
One Saturday in May, armed with the information, a notepad, and pen, my husband John and myself decided to visit Central Library in Birmingham. Ascertaining at the information desk that the Genealogy department was on the sixth floor, we made our way via the escalators much to John's disgust, as he prefers the lift.
We found the assistants extremely helpful and were soon set up with the correct census file. I found it amazing that so many people resided in one house at that time, and was also intrigued to see the various descriptions of the professions held by members of the family. On that occasion we didn’t have any luck with the search, but I consoled myself with the thought that at least I now knew how to set about it, and resolved to return at the first opportunity.
Over the next few weeks, I visited the library a number of times and met a lot of people engaged on similar searches; all as enthralled by the past as I was. I quickly realised I was hooked. The more I found out, the more I wanted to know. Not only did I want to trace my family, I also wanted to know the type of clothes they wore, what their houses looked like, and anything else I could discover. This led to me buying a number of books in the course of my research and spending a lot of time in the reference section of Central Library.
The next step was to find out if anyone in the family had photographs of older family members; my father mentioned that one of his brothers, my Uncle Leonard, had a fantastic collection. I hadn’t seen Leonard for many years and at that time he wasn’t on the telephone, so I took the bull by the horns and wrote asking if I could perhaps borrow a few of his old photographs. To my delight, he wrote back saying that he was planning a book himself, but he was quite prepared to loan me some of his collection. Overjoyed, I wrote back immediately asking if we could perhaps meet some time. Apparently, he too had been tracing the family tree on his side of the family.
I mentioned to a friend that I had reached a standstill in my research. She told me that Teletext ran a free family tree service.

Birmingham Girls

Available from :
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Friday, 24 May 2019

George - A very special dog

George - February 2017

We had George in April 2015. He had been born Boxing day 2014 at a farm in Derbyshire. I had seen him advertised on a very well known pet site and on seeing him fallen in love straight away. He had a certain air about him that said, 'I'm the one for you!'
I had made the decision to have another dog after losing my thirteen year old, Golden Retriever X Bearded Collie dog, Sophie, in February. We had lost her brother Boyden eighteen months previously, he and Sophie had been with us since 2000. Anyone who has lost a precious pet will understand the heartbreak that goes when they are gone. The emptiness in the house is shocking. We often thought that we heard them running up the stairs or pattering about the kitchen. The chair Boyden had curled up on when he was so ill often had indentations on after he and Sophie had gone and before we had George. All very strange. In fact for a good while after having George he would stand in front of this particular chair and wag his tail. Again, very strange.

Wednesday, 24 April 2019

A Prisoner of My Mind C Hazelwood

A Prisoner of My Mind    C Hazelwood  

A horrifying journey through one man's battle with Alzheimer's Disease. Describing how he slowly loses control of his mind. He questions the meaning of life after falling foul of a killer that strikes twice. After the reader has finished with the book, he or she will frantically analyse their own sanity and begin to fear old age.
                     
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One of the reviews for A Prisoner of My Mind

14 December 2017

 

 






Sunday, 31 March 2019

A Love Poem





You Are
You are the whispers on the wind
You are the sunbeams that light my day
You are the starlight that lights my dreams
You are the silver of the moon and the rushing waterfalls
You are the snowflakes that kiss my face with a lovers' lips
You are the one who brings me love and laughter as daylight fades
and night time falls
You are the one I kiss each night before I sleep
You are the one beside me as each new day dawns
You are the one I will love and cherish
for evermore
You and I are as one until
we are but whispers on the wind

Copyright @ Carol Arnall 2013

Lost Within My Mind - for my mom and mother-in-law






Lost Within My Mind

I’m in another place
It’s a place I do not know
I’m afraid, confused lost in this space
Within my mind
They say I’m old and have lost my mind
They say there is no cure
They laugh and scoff when I try to say
I am still me here within my mind
No-one knows me anymore
No-one listens
No-one talks to me when I try to tell them
I am still me here within my mind
I did not ask to come to this place
This place I do not know
A place where I am lonely, sad and cry
This place where I am lost within my mind
I wish they would understand
I am here within my mind
I am not an empty shell
I am still me asking to be loved
Not left behind, forgotten in this place
Simply because  at times I am lost within my mind

Copyright Carol Arnall September 2012 

I wrote this one evening after speaking with my mother-in-law who suffered with Alzeimer's disease. She sadly died. I miss her so much, My mother suffered from the same disease and I miss her every minute of every day terribly. On Mother's day they both occupy my thoughts continuously.